Wednesday, March 15, 2006

Whipped...Degrading 'The Manhood'

As most of you who read this blog (not many), you know I spend a lot of time with my girlfriend. Some tell me I'm 'whipped' others see it as dedication to make her happy (that would probably just be the girls and/or married men). I try to do everything possible to make her happy even if that means canceling my appearance at the church gym to play a little ball, if I've already promised her we would do something. I try to do all the gentleman-style acts like open the car door (although I must say Niccy B. is a pro at that one), call her beautiful at least twice a day, and purchase all that fatty foods (I don't have the money for) that make her happy. In fact some of the people that say I'm 'whipped' have girlfriends of their own now. Now I know they haven't been dating nearly as long as Jenn and I but they spend just as much time together. I suddenly think they have realized what I've been doing all this time, building. When you tell a girl she's beautiful, she'll come to you when she's feeling... not so beautiful (trust me it happens, even when they're gorgeous), when you open the door it shows you care about them before yourself, and when you buy them fatty foods... well I don't know what that will do in the long run besides make them into the food but hey, it puts her in a good mood for the moment (haha Just Kidding). I guess the point I'm trying to make is this, although being whipped is something that makes a man feel inferior, it makes all the difference to the girl you're waiting for if you've practiced the skills needed to be a husband. To care for her, support her, listen to her, please her, and most of all be there for her whenever she needs you, not just when you don't have something planned with 'the guys'. If you're one like me who prays for their future wife to be perfect for you and your family, I hope you'll want to be everything she prayed for.

8 comments:

Nick C. said...

sorry i know theres probably alot of spelling errors i was typing really fast.

Adam said...

I proud of you kid. Forget the minor spelling erros - its the thought that counts right? Haha. I can just see words and sentences flying from your mind to your fingers with no time to go back and make corrections. Good post man. I love it. Im interested in how others will react to this one! I think you'll get some bonus points for this post Cooper!

Adam said...

Why did you put a comment moderation on you big dumbo?! Im just playing dude!

b coop said...

haha.... nature nerd!

Kathryn said...

Nick, thats so sweet, but you can be all that to Jenn, but not be whipped!
Whipped means, you drop whatever you are doing (playing ball with the guys)when she calls you and needs a stick of gum. i know thats stupid, but i'm just trying to prove that ur not really whipped and jenn isnt demanding.
but congrats on ur good relationship

Anonymous said...

Aww!--that's so sweet!

Jennifer said...

haha bonus points?! not with the fatty food comments? Do you think those foods are making me fat?!?! haha just kidding babe. I'm glad you try to make me happy, you're pretty good at it.

Tim said...

Most people that will call you "whipped," whether you are or not, are either 1)Jealous or 2)Mad that they do not have the same quality relationship. Great post, Nick.