Whipped...Degrading 'The Manhood'

As most of you who read this blog (not many), you know I spend a lot of time with my girlfriend. Some tell me I'm 'whipped' others see it as dedication to make her happy (that would probably just be the girls and/or married men). I try to do everything possible to make her happy even if that means canceling my appearance at the church gym to play a little ball, if I've already promised her we would do something. I try to do all the gentleman-style acts like open the car door (although I must say Niccy B. is a pro at that one), call her beautiful at least twice a day, and purchase all that fatty foods (I don't have the money for) that make her happy. In fact some of the people that say I'm 'whipped' have girlfriends of their own now. Now I know they haven't been dating nearly as long as Jenn and I but they spend just as much time together. I suddenly think they have realized what I've been doing all this time, building. When you tell a girl she's beautiful, she'll come to you when she's feeling... not so beautiful (trust me it happens, even when they're gorgeous), when you open the door it shows you care about them before yourself, and when you buy them fatty foods... well I don't know what that will do in the long run besides make them into the food but hey, it puts her in a good mood for the moment (haha Just Kidding). I guess the point I'm trying to make is this, although being whipped is something that makes a man feel inferior, it makes all the difference to the girl you're waiting for if you've practiced the skills needed to be a husband. To care for her, support her, listen to her, please her, and most of all be there for her whenever she needs you, not just when you don't have something planned with 'the guys'. If you're one like me who prays for their future wife to be perfect for you and your family, I hope you'll want to be everything she prayed for.